Lingam massage – a pleasure designed to please every man. Here is a quick rundown on it

The lingam massage is a unique erotic procedure with a tantric flavour, which consists mainly of sensually massaging the genital, perineal and anal area in men. While orgasm may be a part of it, the main purpose of this treatment is to provide sexual healing and enable one’s sensual self-discovery. If provided skilfully, this treatment is really something to behold!

 

Lingam massage can yield many beneficial results, here are some of them…

Aside from being tremendously pleasurable, there are actual benefits to be drawn from this procedure. It can provide some degree of help with:

·         Premature ejaculation

·         Impotence or lack of sexual desire

·         Genital insensivity

·         Insecurities about one’s own body 

Orgasm vs ejaculation – lingam helps you to distinguish between them 

While for most people orgasm and ejaculation go hand in hand, they are actually two separate things and every tantric practitioner know that. While orgasm is a matter of energy, ejaculation is a physiological reflex. Within a tantric context, by ejaculating during orgasm, one empties himself of the vital energies that are otherwise better left inside to innervate the body. There are methods of stopping the ejaculation while still achieving orgasm, thus retaining the energy inside. In a non-tantric context, this is known as semen retention and it is said to yield multiple health and psychological benefits.

Either way, learning to distinguish orgasm and ejaculation and to control and manipulate them is a tremendously useful skill to have that might even make you more sexually proficient!

However, let’s not lose sight of the spiritual dimension of lingam

This procedure is partially derived from tantric and yoga practices and shares similar premises with them. The ultimate goal is to activate the chakras, which are said to be the focal points inside our bodies, through which the cosmic energy courses. (You can listen to a podcast explaining the concept of chakras here.) By meditation, visualisation, exercise and bodywork, these chakras are activated, allowing for the energy to freely course. By succeeding in doing so, one is thus set on a path towards the enlightenment.

When talking about the lingam massage specifically, its sphere of influence is mostly limited to the Muladhara, the root chakra and one of the seven chakras in total. Muladhara is located at the base of the spine and is considered to be the absolute foundation of your energy body. It is a seat of the divine energy called kundalini, which needs to be awakened and cultivated in order to attain enlightenment and spiritual liberation. There are many ways to do so, the lingam massage being just one of them – but nevertheless a very enjoyable one! 

For those wishing to try to give one, here are some lingam massage tips

·         Setting up the place. A quiet, private room with optimal temperature and soft lighting

·         Stimulating the senses. Of course a massage gets touchy, but don’t forget to stimulate the smell by lighting up some aromatic candles, and the hearing by putting on some good music.

·         Lubrication. Use designated massage oils to lubricate the penis, scrotum, perineum and anus.

·         Aside from massaging the penis, remember to stimulate the testicles and perineal area as well! If you’re up for it, you may even try to give your man a prostate massage!

·         And don’t forget to be creative and loving while doing this! Love, care and passion are the three main ingredients of lingam!

Would you like to try the lingam treatment? For which reason? Do you think there is truth to the belief in chakras? Discuss below!